I don’t approve of ladies asking Guys for money, it won't make them reach their self-actualized state' - Joro Olumofin

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Relationship blogger and consultant, Joro Olumofin, has shared his opinion on ladies who ask guys for money.

According to him, asking guys for items like underwear, iPhone, Hair, Makeup kit won’t change the life of any lady or make them reach their self-actualized State. Instead he advised ladies to ask for things like land, employment, Business Capital or Partnership that will transform their lives.
Read his post below.
I don’t approve of Ladies asking Guys for money. I believe men and women are equal, feminists even advocate equality between sexes but I’m very disappointed at the requests a lot of ladies make on their Boyfriends or Suitors. Most ladies make requests of items that won’t change their status quo or current state permanently. 
For example (1) Hair (2) Iphone (3) Dubai Ticket (4) Makeup kit (5) N50,000 / $200 (6) Hair Net (7) Underwear 
These items won’t change your life or make you reach your Self Actualized State. 
Please ladies from now on, if you’re the TYPE to ask guys for Things. 
Please ask for (1)Land (2) 500k Loan (3) Employment (4) School Fees
(5) Business Capital or Partnership 
Ask with a purpose if you’re going to ask for anything at all, don’t ask to remain the same, ask to change.

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